为了因应家务劳动分配不均的现象，越来越多女性「妈妈网红」（如 Lilian Schmidt）正在推广生成式人工智慧作为虚拟的「共同抚养者」，以自动化繁琐的家庭管理。Lilian Schmidt 制作了她客制化的 GPT「Coparent」，并以 37 美元的价格出售使用权，这使她的 TikTok 粉丝数量在三周内迅速扩增至 27,000 人。这一趋势凸显了持续存在的家庭失衡；美国劳工部 2022 年的一项调查指出，有工作的母亲每周额外花费 13.5 小时在做家务上，平均每周花费 12.5 小时在育儿上，这比 1975 年增加了 40%。

尽管皮尤研究中心的数据显示，与 50 年前相比，父亲在家务和育儿方面的贡献增加了一倍以上，但母亲仍然承担了大部分的体力和精神劳动。尽管有这样的负担，2025 年的一项研究显示了人工智慧的性别差距，女性在日常生活中整合生成式人工智慧的可能性比男性低了 20% 以上。Mel Robbins 和 Reese Witherspoon 等科技倡导者试图通过将人工智慧框架为女性赋权的工具来缩小这一差距，而像 Sarah Dooley 这样在 2023 年开始使用人工智慧的专业人士，已转向全职咨询并撰写了一本关于家庭人工智慧整合的书。

然而，人工智慧育儿的兴起引发了关于其社会和发展影响的辩论。批评者指出预测表明人工智慧可能会使近 15% 的劳动力面临失业风险，并对其对儿童心理健康的影响表示担忧。此外，结构性问题依然存在：Lilian Schmidt 的受众中有 95% 是女性，这表明家庭精神负担仍然主要被视为女性的问题。最终，批评者认为，虽然人工智慧可以协助完成任务，但它未能解决女性必须管理家庭的深层社会期望。

In response to the unequal distribution of domestic labor, a growing movement of female "momfluencers," such as Lilian Schmidt, are promoting academic generative AI as a virtual "coparent" to automate tedious household management. Schmidt built her custom GPT, "Coparent," selling access for $37, which quickly expanded her TikTok audience to 27,000 followers within three weeks. This trend highlights a persistent domestic imbalance; a 2022 US Department of Labor survey indicates that employed mothers spend an additional 13.5 hours per week on housework and an average of 12.5 hours per week on childcare, marking a 40 percent increase from 1975.

Although Pew Research Center data shows that fathers have more than doubled their contribution to housework and childcare compared to 50 years ago, mothers still shoulder the majority of physical and mental labor. Despite this burden, a 2025 study reveals an AI gender gap where women are over 20 percent less likely to integrate generative AI into their daily lives than men. Tech advocates like Mel Robbins and Reese Witherspoon seek to close this gap by framing AI as a tool of female empowerment, while professionals like Sarah Dooley, who started using AI in 2023, transitioned to full-time consulting and authored a book on family AI integration.

However, the rise of AI parenting has sparked debate regarding its societal and developmental impacts. Critics point to projections that AI could put nearly 15 percent of the workforce at risk of unemployment and express concerns about its influence on children’s mental health. Additionally, structural questions remain: 95 percent of Schmidt's audience is female, indicating that the domestic mental load continues to be perceived primarily as a women's issue. Ultimately, critics argue that while AI can assist with tasks, it fails to address the underlying societal expectation that women must manage the household.